Use Everything You Have In A Worthwhile Way

December 01, 2025 00:24:51
Use Everything You Have In A Worthwhile Way
Don't Die With Your Song Inside: A self-compassion guide to sharing your gifts with the world
Use Everything You Have In A Worthwhile Way

Dec 01 2025 | 00:24:51

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Your experiences. Your struggles. Your hard-won lessons. None of it has to be wasted.

What if everything you've been through was preparation - not just for your own life, but to help someone else going through the same thing?

You don't need new gifts. You just need to use the ones you already have.

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[00:00:02] I'm going to share with you a spiritual quote about using everything you have in a worthwhile way. [00:00:10] Because you are surrounded with treasures, inner treasures and external treasures. [00:00:19] And all of those treasures can be used for the benefit of yourself and others. And if you use everything you have in a worthwhile way and use your time, your money, your thoughts, your energy, your knowledge, your experience in a way that is serving the world, it will come back to you. [00:00:40] So let's dive into this. [00:00:47] Whatever treasures you've received, use those treasures in a worthwhile way and become an embodiment of. Of success. [00:01:01] In particular, do not let the treasure of time go to waste. [00:01:07] Let not even a second be wasted, but put it to use. [00:01:13] Use time in a worthwhile way. [00:01:18] Use every breath in a worthwhile way. [00:01:23] Use every thought, thought in a worthwhile way. [00:01:28] Use every power in a worthwhile way. [00:01:32] And use every virtue in a worthwhile way. [00:01:38] This is the time to become an embodiment of success, because success is your birthright. [00:01:46] Use that birthright and become an embodiment of success, because success of the present time will remain with you in the future. [00:01:58] What does this mean? It means you have so many treasures. The treasure of thoughts, the treasure of words, the treasure of time, the breath, spiritual powers, virtues. You also have knowledge. You have physical things, you have relationships, you have opportunities, you have technology, you have history, you have stories, Right? You have so many things. If you use everything you have in a worthwhile way, then you amplify the value that you have. [00:02:36] Many people, for example, are thinking random negative thoughts in their head. [00:02:42] Why did this person do this? What's going on with this thing on the news? What about this? Why doesn't this work? Blah, blah, blah, rah, rah, rah. [00:02:50] And so their mind is being wasted. Instead of thinking about success and happiness and joy and freedom and peace and service, they're thinking, oh, blah, blah, blah. So the mind is being wasted. The power of the mind is just going straight in the trash. [00:03:07] And then we have words, right? [00:03:12] You could be talking about things that help people. You could be sharing your knowledge. You could be sharing things that heal people. You could be doing coaching. You could be asking questions. [00:03:23] But many people are talking about random nonsense and gossiping and complaining and speaking out loud. Incantations that curse themselves and others. So the power of the voice, the power of words has gone to waste. [00:03:40] Many people are surrounded by knowledge and books and courses and programs and everything. [00:03:47] And they're either not listening to it or learning it or reading it or watching it. [00:03:53] So it's just sitting around. Many, many people have bought courses, they never even studied them, or they've got books that they've never read, or they've read the books and done the courses and not done anything with any of it. [00:04:06] So that's a complete waste of the knowledge. [00:04:09] Because we could be using our knowledge to change ourselves and change others, help change the world. [00:04:17] Many people have money and they're spending it on things that are bad for their health. They're wasting on stuff they don't need, right? They're not investing it in, in things that would support them, in experiences or teachings or learning or investments that would improve their life. They're just wasting it. [00:04:35] Many people have relationships, opportunity to connect and serve people and develop deepening relationships, and they just don't talk to anyone or they talk to them about superficial things and don't go deeper. [00:04:50] So we have so many treasures, right? We have the treasure of virtues. You can smile at people, you can send them love, you can send them peace, grace, purity, joy. [00:05:01] You can, you can make people feel better through your virtues, spiritual powers, power of your mind, your vibrations, all of these things you have. There are so many internal treasures. Even if you're not doing anything physically, you can still serve on a subtle level and impact people. [00:05:24] So this whole thing about perfectionism and fear and waiting around is basically having loads of treasures and refusing to actually use them in a worthwhile way. [00:05:35] There's another quote, spiritual quote, that wealth is never diminished by sharing it. [00:05:42] So people who do the most donations physically, right? People who donate the most end up getting more wealth back. [00:05:50] And when it comes to sharing your knowledge, your teachings, your experience, if you have some knowledge or you've read something, you've learned something, you can tell somebody about it. You haven't lost it by sharing it, have you? You've actually doubled it. [00:06:05] So if you share what you learn with someone else, it gets bigger, it grows. And then they can share it with someone. And they can share it with someone. [00:06:13] If you create a course or a book or something on the Internet, you can do it once and you can duplicate it potentially millions of times, right? So sharing what you have gets bigger. If you send love to somebody and light and happiness. [00:06:35] Ah, yes. Does it decrease in yourself or does it expand? If you spend the day sending blessings, sending light, sending peace to everyone around you, does it get bigger or does it get smaller? [00:06:53] Yeah, it grows. [00:07:00] So I encourage you now to just think about your treasures. This is an action session. [00:07:08] You understand the concept. The more you use everything you have in a worthwhile way, the greater your wealth will become, the greater it will amplify and the more blessings you'll receive, the more money you'll receive. [00:07:23] If you share everything you know from your heart, you will get huge benefit from it. [00:07:31] People who are miserly in sharing end up very stagnant and stuck and depressed. [00:07:40] If you share everything you've learned from your heart and you give good wishes, pure feelings, blessings you give, donate to charity even if you don't have much money, a little bit. [00:07:51] Give, give, give, give, give from your heart, receiving from a higher source and giving out. [00:07:56] It will keep expanding and expanding and expanding if we only think about ourselves. Me, me, me, me, me. What can I get? What can I get? We're not going to get anything. We're actually going to get restricted. So it's in sharing and using everything in a worthwhile way that we amplify our wealth. [00:08:18] So I encourage you now to stop. If you have a moment, you can pause this and just tune into this. Get a pen. [00:08:25] I want you to think about what wealth you actually have that you can use in a worthwhile way. What can you use? So I'll just go through the list and then there are also other things and there's lots of detail in this and it's worth writing it down so you know what you have to share. [00:08:45] So first of all, you have the breath, right? You can use your breath as a grounding means you can breathe in light, good wishes and you can send out good vibrations. So your actual breath itself can be a healing, valuable thing. If you're breathing in good energy, breathing in peace and sending out peace, your breath itself is valuable. [00:09:19] Then you have your thoughts. [00:09:22] Your thoughts are your first creation. Your thoughts are the thing that will create everything else. [00:09:30] The reason millionaires and billionaires talk so much about mindset is because the mind is the cause of everything. [00:09:42] So if you think powerful thoughts, if you think benevolent thoughts, if you send blessings to yourself and others, if you think about how you can help people, if you come up with plans for service and personal growth, you're using your mind in a worthwhile way, right? There's so many things you can do with your mind. That's a huge topic in itself. There's 101 things you can do with your mind to improve your life. [00:10:15] Then you have the power of virtues, right? This is a word that doesn't get used that much these days actually. [00:10:23] But things like love, peace. [00:10:26] There's actually a list of 36 virtues I can give you Access to this. I'll just read them. Accuracy. So you can use your virtues to help people. [00:10:36] By being accurate, being on point. It's a virtue that by you being like that, it has an effect on people. [00:10:43] Appreciation. [00:10:44] As you appreciate things, you actually make the world better. [00:10:50] Benevolence. [00:10:52] Carefree. If you feel carefree, you will make everyone else feel lighter. [00:10:57] Cheerfulness. [00:10:59] Cleanliness. [00:11:01] Contentment. [00:11:02] Contentment has been said to be the greatest virtue. If you're content. [00:11:08] How many people are content? Right? Most people are constantly discontent. If you're content and satisfied, you are a huge blessing to everyone in your life. [00:11:20] Cooperation is a virtue. You can cooperate with people. [00:11:23] Courage. [00:11:26] If you're courageous, you help other people be courageous. [00:11:29] Detachment. Right. Non attachment. Being able to see things from a higher place. [00:11:35] Determination. [00:11:37] Determination is critical virtue. Because determination causes success. If you have determination. I'm definitely going to do it. I'm definitely going to do it. I'm definitely going to do. [00:11:48] Is done. It is done. Then it's going to happen. [00:11:51] Discipline. Discipline is critical for success. Doing what we need to do even if we don't feel like it. [00:11:58] Easiness. Being easy. Easy. Natured. Egolessness. [00:12:03] Energetic. Far sightedness. [00:12:06] Fearlessness. [00:12:08] Generosity. [00:12:10] Good wishes. [00:12:12] Honesty. [00:12:16] Humility. [00:12:18] Introspection. [00:12:20] Lightness. [00:12:22] Maturity. [00:12:24] Mercy. [00:12:26] Obedience. [00:12:28] Orderliness. Patience. Politeness. Purity. [00:12:34] Royalty. [00:12:36] Self Confidence. [00:12:39] Simplicity. Sweetness. [00:12:42] Tirelessness. [00:12:44] And lastly, tolerance. [00:12:48] These 36 virtues are a gift to yourself and others. If you are living these virtues in your life, you'll feel better. And you also help other people, right? That's something you can give just through your presence. And then there are the eight powers. [00:13:08] The power to withdraw. [00:13:10] The ability to step back from situations, go inward and connect with your true self. [00:13:18] That is a power. That's a spiritual power that you have. And as you use it, you can improve your own life and help others as well. [00:13:28] The power to pack up. [00:13:31] The ability to let go of unnecessary thoughts, attachments and past experience experiences. [00:13:40] The power to tolerate. The ability to remain stable and peaceful in the face of challenges or difficult people. [00:13:52] The power to accommodate, which is the ability to adapt and adjust without losing your inner peace. [00:14:01] Accommodate situations. Because life is crazy, right? Things are going to happen. Can we accommodate that into us? [00:14:08] Right? Can we be okay with that? Oh, no, no, no. It has to be this. Has to be this. Trying to control everything. [00:14:13] The power to discern. [00:14:16] The ability to differentiate between right and wrong, truth and falsehood. [00:14:22] The power to judge. The ability to make clear, unbiased and just decisions. Right? We have to be able to make good decisions in life, right? Otherwise we're going to make those bad decisions and wreck our life. [00:14:37] The power to face, the ability to confront obstacles, fears and difficulties with courage. The power to face is absolutely critical. If we stop avoiding everything and just face it, then we can make it better, right? [00:14:55] Can you see how powerful this is? All these powers, these spiritual powers, can transform all the situations in our life. [00:15:06] And then of course, there is the power to cooperate, the ability to work harmoniously with others, creating unity and collective success, right? So we have the virtues, we have the powers, we have the breath, the thoughts, the words. [00:15:26] What are you saying out loud? What are you using your voice for? [00:15:32] So just make a note of these things. Did you realize how many treasures you have, right? These massive, massive amounts of treasures that you have available to use your words. You can heal through your words. You can create healing by speaking, by sharing, by writing. [00:15:54] The power of words. Absolutely amazing. [00:15:59] Then, of course, is the power of actions. And that includes many, many things. [00:16:04] Action is the cause of transformation. [00:16:11] Action moves things forward in the most powerful way. [00:16:15] So of course, the inner world is the original creation. The thoughts, the energy, the vibrations, attitude, right? We didn't talk about that in detail, but not only do you have thoughts, you have attitude, vibrations, awareness, states of consciousness, blessings. These are all spiritual things that you can use to transform your own inner state and change your life and influence other people. [00:16:47] And then of course, there is taking action, sending the message. You know, eating the right food, going to the place, doing the difficult stuff, you know, registering the domain name, you know, setting up your podcast, writing your book, whatever, right? These are all actions. Going on a retreat, hosting a retreat, buying a plane ticket. If we don't do the action, we don't get the outcome. So we have to have understanding of using our time and our actions in a worthwhile way, right? So what are you using your time for? [00:17:26] We all have the same amount of time in the day. Is our time and our actions being used in a way that is going to lead to the greatest result? [00:17:37] Or are we spending hours and hours randomly watching stuff and complaining about things and blah, blah, blah? [00:17:44] Do you see what I mean? See how many powers you have? If you used your time, your energy, your mind, your thoughts, your words, your money, everything in a worthwhile way, you would amplify it and amplify it and amplify it infinitely. [00:18:02] What about your relationships and connections? [00:18:07] Are you using all your connections and relationships in a worthwhile way? Are you aware of all the people you know in your life? Are you sending them messages? [00:18:15] Are you sending Them blessings, Are you looking after them? [00:18:20] Are you asking for help when you need it? Because there's a lot of people who could help you if you reached out to them. There's lots of opportunities to receive support and give support, and also loads of opportunities to make money. If you're wanting to make money with your work, if you reached out to the people, found out what they wanted and offered them something. [00:18:42] So many times people ask me things like, how do I get clients? And I'm like, well, have you started with all the people you know and they people that they know? Because you probably have 10 clients just in your contacts. [00:18:56] If you were to tell people who you know, I'm doing coaching, do you want coaching to anyone who wants coaching? Is there anyone who you know, who knows someone who wants coaching? Are there any businesses that are interested in coaches? [00:19:08] You can get tons of clients without ever having a website. [00:19:11] But most people don't realize the power of their relationships because they're not using them in a worthwhile way. So you can write this down. Your relationships and connections, how can you use them in a worthwhile way? And then you have opportunities, which includes all kinds of things, right? Opportunities to do things, to buy things, to have things, to go places, to get help, to give help. I mean, there's countless, like, in almost infinite amount of opportunities in the world right now because of the Internet, because everything's opened up. [00:19:50] Are you taking advantage of all the opportunities that you have? You probably have far too many opportunities. [00:19:56] So which are the best ones to use? And are you focused on the best opportunities that you have? [00:20:02] Or are you unaware of all the opportunities? Just write it down because you have hundreds of opportunities. [00:20:11] Opportunities to serve, opportunities to learn, opportunities to grow, opportunities to try things, travel places, do things like, it's just almost infinite at this point. [00:20:23] Treasure of our health. Are we looking after our health? Our body? [00:20:28] Treasure of our experience, Treasure of all the knowledge that we have? If you have a bunch of books, are you using the books that you have, the courses that you have, are you actually, you don't have to study everything you have because it's not always relevant. But the things that you have, are you taking the most benefit from the things that would benefit you the most? So if you have 100 books, what out of all those books do you need? And are you receiving the greatest benefit from those things or are they just sitting on a shelf? [00:21:09] Are you asking questions to mentors who could help you? [00:21:15] Right? [00:21:16] Are there courses and programs and mentoring that you could get? But you just haven't got it. And if you did, it would change your life. [00:21:25] And then there's all the technology, right? Your laptop, Are you using it to its fullest potential? Are you using your laptop in a worthwhile way? Are you using your phone in a worthwhile way? Are you using your equipment in a worthwhile way? Are you using your gym equipment? Are you using your weights or your exercise bike or your yoga mat? Or like, are you. [00:21:47] Is it being used? What about your candles? [00:21:50] Do you see what I mean? What about the supplements? Are you taking your supplement? I'm just not trying to give you a hard time. I'm just saying there's so many things that we all have, and half the time we don't even realize how much we have because it's so much. And oftentimes we're not using it all in a worthwhile way. So I want you to write an extensive list of all your treasures. And if you do this, you will feel so wealthy. Write a list of all your treasures and look at it, and you'll be amazed at the amount of abundance you already have. [00:22:24] Oh, my goodness, look at all this wealth on so many levels. The treasure of the mind, treasure of vibrations, people, situations, opportunities, you know, and then, of course, there's money. But people normally only focus on the money and they ignore everything else. [00:22:42] Look at all the treasures, all the knowledge or the opportunities that you have, and then how can you use the things that you already have in a worthwhile way? There is a great book called Acres of Diamonds about this farmer who was looking at his neighbor's land, and he was like, you know, that looks much better than my land. So he bought his neighbor's farm, and his neighbor ended up buying his farm. [00:23:14] And it turned out that his farm, the original farmer's farm, had acres and acres of diamonds, but he just hadn't bothered to look, right? He didn't know they were there, or he maybe had some idea, but couldn't be bothered to dig deep enough to find out. All of his diamonds. You have acres and acres of diamonds in your life, infinite treasures. And if you just use them in a worthwhile way, then your whole life will get better. [00:23:49] It's almost cruel if you think about it, to have so many treasures and not share them with others, because the more we share, the more they grow. [00:23:59] Wealth on this level is never extinguished or diminished through donating. [00:24:09] Physical wealth actually increases by donating it. And certainly virtues, powers, knowledge increases by donating it. So the more you share, the more you use your wealth, the wealthier you'll get. So write that list. Write it down very, very deeply and have a look at it every day and keep adding to it. And then ask yourself, am I using all my treasures in a worthwhile way? You are wealthy, wealthy, wealthy. [00:24:40] Realize your wealth and share it with others. [00:24:46] Have a beautiful day, lots of love, and talk to you soon.

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